Wedding etiquette plays a crucial role in ensuring a smooth and respectful celebration for everyone involved. Here are some dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette that every bride should know:


  1. Send Invitations on Time: Send out your wedding invitations at least 6-8 weeks before the wedding date to give guests enough time to RSVP and make arrangements.
  2. Respect RSVPs: Be gracious and keep track of the RSVPs you receive. Organize seating and catering based on the confirmed number of guests.
  3. Thank-You Notes: Send personalized thank-you notes to guests who attended the wedding and those who sent gifts. Aim to send them within three months after the wedding.
  4. Appreciate Bridesmaids and Groomsmen: Show gratitude to your bridesmaids and groomsmen for their support and participation. Consider giving them thoughtful gifts as a token of appreciation.
  5. Communicate Dress Code: Clearly communicate the dress code on the wedding invitation to help guests dress appropriately for the occasion.
  6. Be Punctual: Start the ceremony and reception on time to respect your guests’ schedules.
  7. Greet Guests: Make an effort to greet and thank each guest personally for attending your wedding.
  8. Be Considerate of Guests’ Comfort: Provide comfort items like shade, fans, or blankets, depending on the weather and location of your wedding.
  9. Create a Seating Chart: Organize a seating chart for the reception to ensure everyone has a designated place to sit.
  10. Be Mindful of Guest List: Be thoughtful when creating the guest list. Avoid inviting guests to pre-wedding events if they are not invited to the wedding itself.


  1. Don’t Exclude Groom from Decision Making: Involve the groom in the wedding planning and decision-making process. It’s a day for both of you, and it’s essential to consider each other’s preferences.
  2. Don’t Be a Bridezilla: Avoid becoming overly stressed and demanding. Treat everyone involved with respect and kindness.
  3. Don’t Discuss Registry on Invitations: Avoid mentioning the registry on the wedding invitation. Share this information through your wedding website or through word of mouth.
  4. Don’t Make Last-Minute Changes: Avoid making significant changes close to the wedding date, as it may cause confusion and inconvenience for your guests and vendors.
  5. Don’t Assume Plus-Ones: Address invitations specifically to those who are invited. Avoid assuming that guests can bring a plus-one unless explicitly stated on the invitation.
  6. Don’t Postpone Sending Thank-You Notes: Promptly send thank-you notes for gifts received, even if you are also sending formal thank-you cards after the wedding.
  7. Don’t Overspend: Stick to your budget and avoid going into significant debt for your wedding. Be mindful of the financial impact on you and your future spouse.
  8. Don’t Forget to Plan for Children: If children are invited to the wedding, consider providing entertainment or activities to keep them engaged during the celebration.
  9. Don’t Make Exclusive Bridal Party Demands: Be considerate of your bridal party’s financial situation and avoid making excessive demands on their time and finances.
  10. Don’t Micromanage Vendors: Trust your selected vendors to do their job well. Avoid micromanaging and allow them to execute their services professionally.

Following these dos and don’ts of wedding etiquette will help you create a memorable and respectful wedding celebration that everyone will cherish. Remember that kindness, thoughtfulness, and good communication are the foundation of a successful and enjoyable wedding day.